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A Real Brand Strategy Starts Here - Shaping Personhood And Cultivating Collective Consciousness
Over the last two issues, we dug into identity psychology, specifically why championing Ego strength is the key to raising an anti-cult brand, and we debunked dangerous branding myths running rampant as a result of The Cult Of Authenticity.
We also promised you an alternative to the cold, dead-eyed corporate brand and the authenticity-driven personal brand, a strategic human-centered brand. A brand that does not harm to the people in it's orbit.
So let's get into it.
Over the last two issues, we dug into identity psychology, specifically why championing Ego strength is the key to raising an anti-cult brand, and we debunked dangerous branding myths running rampant as a result of The Cult Of Authenticity.
We also promised you an alternative to the cold, dead-eyed corporate brand and the authenticity-driven personal brand, a strategic human-centered brand. A brand that does not harm to the people in it's orbit.
So let's get into it.
What Is Brand?
Let’s be clear. A brand is not a mood board or a core messaging one-sheet. It’s also not a narrative or a personality as many popular frameworks profess.
Rather, as I unpacked in our very first issue of On Raising Brands, a brand is the space between and within the people who bring it to life:
The space between the founder and the business.
The space between the founder and the team.
The space between the business and the customer.
The space between the customer and the team.
The space between respective customers.
The space between all those people and the marketplace.
The space between each of the roles these people embody and their wholeness.
For this reason, at Humaniz, we anchor all our work with founders in three fundamental truths that brands, like people:
aren't manufactured but born
are living systems
must be raised with intention
The Birth Of Brand
The moment you conceive of your business, a brand begins to form. And with each new thought and with every next action, that brand is shaped and expressed.
Every business, regardless of how much time and energy they have consciously invested in “Branding,” has a brand.
The question is not, “Do I have a brand?” The question is “What’s informing my brand's growth?”
Brands As Living System
We see a brand as a living system, defined as divergent pieces converging to make a self-correcting whole.
But just as Darwin never intended his work to suggest that “fittest = best,” we must be clear, self-correction is not inherently positive; it’s merely adaptive.
Surely you know a person who flies by the seat of their pants. They are impulsive. Maybe you notice that this person, however fun or nice, is not the most dependable. Maybe you have also noticed that while they get lucky, they seem to lack agency when things go south. Lastly, you might notice that this person seems unaware of how their behavior impacts the people around them.
Surely you also know someone who is very calculated. They are thoughtful. It seems that all the plans they set in motion come to fruition. You know you can count on this person to follow through on promises and commitments. When times are tough, this person always seems to rise to the occasion. And you notice that this person is very self-aware, considering their impact on others early and often.
Both of these people are living systems. The first person is self-correcting reactively; life is happening to them. The second person is self-correcting responsively; their life is unfolding from them. In case it’s not apparent, the difference between these two approaches is intention.
And if you want to raise a brand that can take on a life of its own, without morphing into something you barely recognize, the question is not, “Is my brand growing or not?” but “Is my brand reacting or responding to the world?”
Raising A Strategic Human-Centered Brand
Response, unlike reaction, requires a pause. And it’s in that pause that you anchor back to your intention. Then and only then do you take action, intentional action.
But that only works if your intention is clear.
To move with intention, you must have:
1. Clarity Of Identity
You have to know who you are in the context of the decision.
That includes your values, priorities, responsibilities, and constraints.
Without clarity, action becomes reactive.
You end up chasing outcomes, avoiding discomfort, or copying others.
Intentional action starts with inner alignment.
2. Coherent Framework For Decision-Making
You need more than gut instinct; you need a structure to help you evaluate options, choose direction, and navigate tradeoffs.
This doesn’t mean having all the answers.
It means knowing what principles you’ll use to decide.
A coherent framework makes it possible to act with consistency even under pressure.
3. Psychological Readiness
You must be able to tolerate uncertainty, contradiction, and discomfort.
Intentional action often requires breaking patterns or holding tension without defaulting to old habits.
This includes the capacity to say no even to good things and the willingness to slow down in service of long-term coherence.
If you can’t speak to your brand’s identity with confidence and clarity, make most decisions based on gut instinct, and find yourself frequently swayed by external pressures, you are likely raising a default brand. While the outcomes of a default approach aren’t inherently bad and you can get lucky, this approach is akin to raising a child without a clear parenting philosophy without accounting for the unique needs of that specific child.
If that’s the story arc you’re ready to exit, then what you need isn’t just better messaging it’s structural identity.
That’s why at Humaniz, we use the Brand IdQ™ framework to build strategic personhood and nurture collective consciousness.
Let’s break that down.
Defining Personhood
Personhood is the divergent pieces of the brand's mind; core motive, needs, values, habits, and relational strategies that converge to form both logic and expression. This is what we call the BrandIdQ™ profile.
Think of personhood, or a BrandIdQ™ profile, like the Self of your business.
Think of the resulting logic as the Ego and the resulting expressions as the Personas (Need a refresher on these terms, click here.)
When personhood is incomplete or under-defined, Ego is weakened and the brand's expression becomes either too rigid to evolve, or too fluid to protect against drift.
Both extremes create confusion and instability as the business grows.
When personhood is complete, Ego is strong, and Personas are responsive.
This foundation is what makes a brand human-centered, not money-centered, not power-centered, but centered on the humanity it interacts with. It doesn’t oppress, exploit, or restrict. It responds with coherence, care, and integrity.
Nurturing Collective Consciousness
Once you have a fully developed Brand IdQ™ profile, which is exactly what you'll get from engaging our complimentary Brand IdQ™, you are primed to nurture intentional collective consciousness. This is what enables intentional, scalable growth. Because every business has a brand, and every brand has a collective consciousness.
So the question is whether it’s being shaped on purpose. Many aren’t, but yours can be.
Most brand strategists, whether they know it or not, borrow from Carl Jung’s version of the collective unconscious, tapping into symbols, archetypes, and emotional familiarity to create resonance.
But at Humaniz, we also draw from Émile Durkheim’s original sociological definition: collective consciousness as the shared beliefs, moral code, and behavioral norms that bind a group together.
Sounds heady but you see it every day when your team naturally copies each other’s behavior, for better or worse.
One is unconscious and inherited. The other is explicit and social.
Most branding unknowingly stops at Jung. We very intentionally expand the conversation into Durkheim.
Because resonance alone won’t scale your brand, but organized participation and shared ownership will.
Durkheim’s lens helps us understand how people, across departments, vendors, even customers, can share responsibility for how the brand shows up.
Using the Brand IdQ™ framework, we tease brand identity apart from the founder, externalize a distinct personhood, develop brand-specific integrity guardrails, and operationalize brand expression. That’s how we activate intentional collective consciousness; that's how we protect brand integrity.
Now people can act in alignment without asking for approval.
They can make decisions with confidence because they walk through those decisions using shared logic, based on the brand’s internal framework.
That’s the difference between founder-dependence and team-driven growth. It’s also what prevents fragmentation as you scale.
That shared ownership is what makes a brand truly anti-cult.
Conclusion
If you take one thing from this series, let it be this: Brands that are truly human-centered don't just protect customers from harm, they protect everyone in their orbit, from team members to partners to future successors.
They are raised with intention, not impulsive action. And they scale through shared ownership, not individual hustle or dictatorial oppression.
If you want to build a brand that grows without harming the people inside or around it, this is the path.
Build strategic personhood. Nurture collective consciousness. Anchor the brand in its humanity—so it becomes self-aware, adaptable, and anti-cult by design.
Ready to raise your brand up right?
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Who We Are
"We don’t create brands, because we truly believe that every business already has a brand. Rather, our role is to help founders and their teams embody the brand fully, express it with more clarity, and expand its influence and impact with more confidence."
~ Charlie Birch, Author of On Raising Brands + Founder and Creative Director @ Humaniz Collective
Bringing a brand to market is just the beginning of your brand’s development and life story.
And that’s where we come in!
We’re creative, marketing and operational experts working together to ensure brands come to life from the inside out.
We support brands throughout their lifecycle across three phases of service:
Brand Strategy
Brand Design
Brand Stewardship
If you’re looking for a brand partner to walk beside you, ensuring your brand grows up healthy and strong, makes good life choices, and attracts the right people into its orbit, Humaniz Collective is the obvious choice.
Engage with Brand IdQ - our complimentary brand strategy generator - and let us prove our worth.
The Biggest Branding Myth No One Talks About → On The Cult of Authenticity
A deep dive into "anti-cult personal branding" for Founders who feel compelled to loop a personal brand into their larger brand strategy. So here we go…
“Be vulnerable with your audience."
"Do what scares you."
"Bring your whole self."
"Build in public."
This is the soundtrack of The Cult Of Authenticity, pouring from the mouths of gurus and influencers who are primed to profit from your pain.
In Part 1 of this series, “The Missing Piece In Raising Human-Centered Brands,” we unpacked how weak Ego, not hubris, plays a significant role in the rise of both toxic corporate branding and unsustainable personal brands. And although personal brands are not our bread and butter, we promised to deep dive into "anti-cult personal branding" for Founders who feel compelled to loop a personal brand into their larger brand strategy. So here we go…
“Be vulnerable with your audience."
"Do what scares you."
"Bring your whole self."
"Build in public."
This is the soundtrack of The Cult Of Authenticity, pouring from the mouths of gurus and influencers who are primed to profit from your pain.
At Humaniz, we don't buy into the big push toward "authentic" personal brands. Not because we are against being real. Realness is awesome. The world needs more realness, bring on the realness, PLEASE!
But if we're being real, then we have to talk about:
How easy it is for healthy authenticity to be perverted by the pressures of capitalism and morph into self-imposed exploitation of the Self.
How "authenticity" becomes the justification for inappropriate and bad behavior that harms others or undermines personal and professional goals.
How people with influence worm their way into the hearts and minds of others and convince them that vulnerability is the only way to grow.
On Authenticity
Authentic (adj.): True to one's own personality, spirit, or character
Your inner world isn't a monolith; it's a constellation.
You contain conflicting desires, contradictory values, old wounds, future visions, and adaptive parts that all have their own timing, tone, and agenda.
Sometimes the most honest expression of your Self is restraint.
Sometimes it's contradiction.
Sometimes it's confusion.
Sometimes it's silence.
And the truth no brand coach selling "authentic brands" wants you to realize: you are inherently
authentic.
Even when you're shaping, editing, or masking, those choices come from the real you.
Even when you are lying, or code switching, or merging, or over-editing yourself, that is who you authentically feel you need to be in that moment.
Being inauthentic as a person is an illusion.
But the cult of authenticity has conflated authenticity with vulnerability, and vulnerability with oversharing.
You can't scroll one thumb swipe without tripping over the sentiment that sharing of yourself is the only way to grow, or that reservations are proof you're insecure or not ready.
We've flattened meaning, and now people think:
Authenticity = Vulnerability = Exposure = Trust
Why It’s Dangerous
Time for more operational definitions:
Vulnerability (noun): the quality or state of being exposed to the possibility of being attacked or harmed, either physically or emotionally
Oversharing (verb): the disclosure of an inappropriate amount of detail about one's personal life
If you are operating under the false belief that authenticity must be created, performed, allowed, invited, etc., you start looking for ways to "be more yourself" - and you land on the doorstep of the oh-so-popular vulnerability flex.
Again, I am not anti-vulnerability. I am, in fact, pro-vulnerability.
But as the very wise queen of vulnerability, Brené Brown, explains:
"Vulnerability is sharing with people who have earned the right to hear our stories."
Key word: earned.
You might feel vulnerable pitching a massive contract, owning a mistake, or standing behind an unpopular decision. That's real. That's human. That's appropriate.
But you reveal a personal trauma in a LinkedIn post not because you've processed it or because it adds value, but because you're hoping it drives impressions, engagement, etc.?
That's oversharing.
In the moment, oversharing is the exploitation of the Self.
As a pattern, it ought to be considered a form of self-harm. You keep exposing more and more of yourself, thinking that's what it takes to be seen.
To grow.
To be taken seriously.
But when that exposure doesn't deliver the return you hoped for, the logic turns on you:
"I must be the wrong kind of authentic."
That's a psychological trap. And it's a brutal one.
At Humaniz, we are in the business of deploying strategies that celebrate humanity, but just for kicks, let's entertain the idea that we’re naive, that we live in a dog-eat-dog world, and you need to claw your way to the top.
Then is this "Cult Of Authenticity" and it’s "an authentic personal brand" the way up?
Still no.
Why It's Bad Advice
It’s bad strategy, because the aim of a brand, personal or company, is not expression—it's impression.
A great brand sets, meets, and exceeds expectations.
And as lovely as you are, not every part of you has a place in your brand, because not every part of you matters to your ideal audience.
"Bring your whole self to work" is about you, not the audience.
The job of a good personal brand is to consistently and coherently deliver the parts of you that add the most value to your ideal audience and to be in integrity with your values as you do it.
You don't need to overshare with potential clients and referral partners to win their trust, any more than your brand needs you to lead with self-righteousness or express every impulse to avoid the burden of self-regulation.
Branding is about holding boundaries, not obliterating them.
The words that should own your inner world if you want to raise a brand, personal or otherwise, are not authenticity and vulnerability. They are:
purpose, commitment, value, boundaries. purpose, commitment, value, boundaries. purpose, commitment, value, boundaries.
But watch out - because when you win at this and your brand takes off, you will be up against the hard truth that personal brands are not scalable.
The second you try to delegate under the umbrella of a personal brand, you will face an authenticity breach - and pretending you don't is an integrity breach.
And this is why we never advise founders to build a personal brand (exclusively) as a way to grow their business.
Conclusion
If you've started to suspect that "just be authentic" isn't a real strategy, you're not wrong you awake, because it’s not.
In Part 1 we broke down how we got here, and now in Part 2, you've seen how authenticity can become a performance trap.
In Part 3, we'll look at how to raise a human-centered brand that can take on a life of its own and scale beyond its founder.
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And if you already know you need something more strategic than "just be yourself," engage Brand IdQ™️ to start humanizing your brand, without self-exploitation.
Who We Are
"We don’t create brands, because we truly believe that every business already has a brand. Rather, our role is to help founders and their teams embody the brand fully, express it with more clarity, and expand its influence and impact with more confidence."
~ Charlie Birch, Author of On Raising Brands + Founder and Creative Director @ Humaniz Collective
Bringing a brand to market is just the beginning of your brand’s development and life story.
And that’s where we come in!
We’re creative, marketing and operational experts working together to ensure brands come to life from the inside out.
We support brands throughout their lifecycle across three phases of service:
Brand Strategy
Brand Design
Brand Stewardship
If you’re looking for a brand partner to walk beside you, ensuring your brand grows up healthy and strong, makes good life choices, and attracts the right people into its orbit, Humaniz Collective is the obvious choice.
Engage with Brand IdQ - our complimentary brand strategy generator - and let us prove our worth.
The Missing Piece In Raising Human-Centered Brands
We moved from rigid professionalism to bold “authenticity,” hoping it would reduce burnout and help us live more fulfilling lives. We were wrong. We are hustling harder now than ever before, still burning out, and turning to technology to fill the void and claw our way to the top. How did we get it so wrong? That’s the exact question we explore in this issue of On Raising Brands, Ego Strength: The Missing Piece In Raising Human-Centered Brands. Read it here now.
We thought personal brands and entrepreneurship were the solution to burnout culture. We were wrong. And to understand why, we need to ask the question:
What do toxic corporate brands and unsustainable personal brands have in common?
The Answer:
Weak Ego.
Wait what!?
Most people think Ego is the problem. The real issue, however, is weak Ego. Let's clarify…
Ego is not confidence. Ego is not inflated self-worth. Narcissism is actually a manifestation of weak Ego.
What then is Ego? And what does this have to do with branding?
Let's start at the beginning with a crash course in psychology.
Ego, Id, Superego, and Personas
Ego is the function of your personality that helps you stay grounded, make wise choices, and manage emotions.
It acts as a peacekeeper and synthesizer, balancing your instincts and desires (the Id) with your morals and conscience (the Superego).
In childhood, the Id is in full force. You've seen this—the unfiltered child who shows up raw in every moment.
As we grow, our cultural context—family, religion, school, society, workplace—contributes to the formation of our Superego.
In a healthy person with well-developed Ego strength, the Self can oscillate between the Id and Superego, choosing moment to moment between instincts and compliance, or desires and obligations, to best serve the Self.
Adults who lack Ego strength will struggle to thrive, consistently becoming the victims of their Id's impulsive behavior or overcorrecting by building an ironclad, oppressive Superego.
But here's the catch:
All of this is happening below the surface, masked by the resulting Personas.
No, I'm not talking about customer personas (though they do have their origin here).
I'm referring to the roles we assume and the parts we play.
The version of yourself that you know? That's Ego.
The version/s others know? Those are Personas.
Personas are a necessary function; everyone builds them. But not all Personas are created equal.
Some are adaptive—anchored in Ego strength, able to shuffle in and out of use without losing coherence.
Some are protective—built to obey or survive.
Some are performative, built to impress.
Stable ↔ Volatile
Expressive ↔ Oppressive
Embodied ↔ Performative
Where a Persona lands along these spectrums depends on its key influences, Ego, Id, or Superego.
When Ego is in charge, life is good. When a Persona is mainly driven by the Id, it will either be observably dysfunctional and deemed increasingly invaluable, or the person who adopts it will struggle to participate in society. To the contrary, people with Personas driven by Superego can get very far before things start to go sideways.
What does this have to do with raising brands?
Great question!
A personal brand is a Persona.
A company brand is a Persona too—a collective one, expected to be adopted to some degree or another by people at every level of the organization.
When Ego strength is on board, both personal brands and company brands can be forces for good. When Ego is weak, chances are the Superego is the organizing force and this can be very dangerous indeed.
Let's examine this claim in a cultural context.
The Cult of Professionalism
➜ The Cult of Professionalism believes that success comes from control, composure, and compliance.
For a long time, the majority of high-functioning professionals rose through the ranks by adopting Personas deemed appropriate by their employers.
These Personas were fueled by varying combinations of Ego and Superego, depending on who embodied them.
If the Ego of an individual was strong and allowed the person to code-switch—"at work” vs. “not at work"—all good.
But when the Ego is weak (which, truthfully, many people's are), the Superego is in charge too much of the time.
Your outward Self performs obedience.
The inner Self withers under the weight of perfection, professionalism, and “what will they think?"
➜ With the Cult of Professionalism, we're left feeling not good enough because we can't measure up.
This dynamic really came to a head in the 80s and 90s.
Millennial kids who saw the ruthless impact of parents stuck in Superego-dominant Persona decided:
“No. We won't do that again."
And we began to build something new, The Cult of Authenticity.
The Cult of Authenticity
➜ The Cult of Authenticity believes that success comes from full self-expression.
Over the past 20 years, this belief has reshaped the professional world, especially for founders.
Personal brands have become more than tools; they have become identities. Power shifted from polish to passion, from composure to confession.
This Persona isn't defined by conformity, but by visibility. You are expected to be transparent, emotional, open, and always "real." The more raw you are, the more trust you deserve.
If the Ego is strong, it can set boundaries, knowing when to reveal and when to restrain.
But when Ego is weak (and many are), the Superego begins to exploit the Self, stripping it of relational boundaries, personal privacy, thoughtful pause, emotional safety, and more, all in the name of complete undiluted brave authenticity.
Eventually, paradoxically, the Self still withers this time under the judgment of not being authentic enough. Or worse, being the wrong kind of authentic.
➜ With the Cult of Authenticity, if we can't measure up, we're left feeling that at our core, we're not enough.
Here's the problem:
The pendulum rarely lands in the middle before crossing into a nearby level of the matrix. No. It swings hard and fast in the other direction.
Instead of looking at the root cause of the burnout epidemic—Ego strength or lack thereof—we just changed our costumes and started performing a new play with the same story arc.
So, it's no surprise that we are hustling harder now than ever before, still burning out, and turning to technology to fill the void and claw our way to the top.
And in this world, Founders are sold two bits of expensive advice:
Focus on building an “authentic" personal brand
Then scale your business on the back of your authentic personal brand
I feel very deeply that this advice is not only wrong.
It's dangerous.
But in a subculture where we not only have to work, but want to work, how do we fix this? How do we raise brands that nourish instead of drain, heal instead of harm?
Raising An Anti-Cult Brand
You thought I was using this word lightly, but I wasn't. I was using it literally, because a cult is at its core a system of imposed ideals—rigid, absolute, moralizing. It offers belonging, but only through conformity to a Persona. You are accepted if you reflect the values of the group—professionalism vs. authenticity, no less and no more. It is structure, an identity, imposed from outside.
An anti-cult, on the other hand, is not rebellion for its own sake. It is integration. Here, the Ego leads—not by force, but by function. The Ego mediates tension. It knows when to express and when to contain. It holds opposites without collapsing: impulse and strategy, transparency and discretion. In the anti-cult, you are not fused with the Persona. It is structure, an identity, grown from within and engaged intentionally.
So I will prescribe a remedy that goes against most advice in your feed:
➜ Don't build an "authentic" personal brand. And don't try to scale your company on it.
Instead, raise a strategic human-centered personal brand if personal gain is your aim.
And raise a strategic human-centered company brand if scaling is your aim.
Since my clients are founders—not executive track professionals—at Humaniz we specialize in the latter. And to be fair, Founders do need to consider doing some deep work in both the personal brand and company brand camps.
And that's why I plan to unpack both issues in sequence in the following two issues of On Raising Brands.
But in the meantime, if you are a Founder who has read this far, you probably don't want to wait a whole month to take action, so I'll point you to our complimentary Brand IdQ™ tool, which is designed to shed light on your brand's inherent Id, Superego, and Ego and kickstart the process of creating that strategic human centered brand persona.
Ready to raise your brand up right?
Engage with Brand IdQ + Results Integration Call to start humanizing your brand.
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Who We Are
"We don’t create brands, because we truly believe that every business already has a brand. Rather, our role is to help founders and their teams embody the brand fully, express it with more clarity, and expand its influence and impact with more confidence."
~ Charlie Birch, Author of On Raising Brands + Founder and Creative Director @ Humaniz Collective
Bringing a brand to market is just the beginning of your brand’s development and life story.
And that’s where we come in!
We’re creative, marketing and operational experts working together to ensure brands come to life from the inside out.
We support brands throughout their lifecycle across three phases of service:
Brand Strategy
Brand Design
Brand Stewardship
If you’re looking for a brand partner to walk beside you, ensuring your brand grows up healthy and strong, makes good life choices, and attracts the right people into its orbit, Humaniz Collective is the obvious choice.
Engage with Brand IdQ - our complimentary brand strategy generator - and let us prove our worth.
Beyond the Friendship Factor: Scaling Brand Loyalty
You started your business to serve your community. You know the people. You know the culture. You know the gaps. You’ve built something meaningful to meet them there. And it worked. Customers came. Sales happened. The thing grew. But now you’re hitting a wall. You have a core crew of loyalists who share on social, wear your merch, they are willing to pay premium prices, and they sing your praises. A bulk of your business comes from them, but you can’t rely on them exclusively if you’re going to grow to the next level. So you are wondering, trying to crack the code, how do I turn these “other customers” into loyalists?
You started your business to serve your community. You know the people. You know the culture. You know the gaps. You’ve built something meaningful to meet them there.
And it worked. Customers came. Sales happened. The thing grew.
But now you’re hitting a wall.
You have a core crew of loyalists who share on social, wear your merch, they are willing to pay premium prices, and they sing your praises. A bulk of your business comes from them, but you can’t rely on them exclusively if you’re going to grow to the next level.
So you are wondering, trying to crack the code, how do I turn these “other customers” into loyalists?
As far as you can tell the main difference is — the crew — they know you personally. And while it’s a nice feeling to know your people have your back, it’s a double-edged sword because you can’t scale friendship.
You’ve read about branding, how it can create loyalty and prime people to pay a premium, but so far investments in these superficial things have not shown a great return.
What gives?
Consider this:
Brand’s primary goal is not to look professional or expensive, it’s to set expectations.
What do I mean?
It’s like parenting a teenager in high school.
Maybe your kid’s a theater kid. Maybe they’re a jock.
But what they are not is universally liked. No one is.
And trying to be liked by everyone just makes them harder to trust.
You know I’m right. We all know that clique switcher. Who is punk rock one day and pops a polo collar the next, just trying desperately to be liked and accepted. It’s sad and equally hard to be around.
If you want them to thrive, you don’t tell them to win over the whole school.
You help them know who they are, own it, and show up in a way that makes it easy for their people to find them.
Your brand works the same way.
It doesn’t need to appeal to everyone in your community.
It needs to attract people who truly value what you’ve built and will be loyal through the highs and lows.
Not just the ones riding the wave of your popularity, but also those who are here for the experience.
That’s what strong brands do:
They set expectations.
They filter the room.
And they help the right people recognize they’ve found their place.
Here’s the reframe:
Right now, your brand is conflated with your personality.
The people who know you personally get the full experience. Everyone else? They’re just getting the product. And in this space, that’s not enough.
Brand isn’t just about being hip or polished—it’s about setting expectations.
It tells the customer what kind of experience to expect and what type of person that experience is truly designed for.
And not everyone is your person.
You personally can’t be besties with every customer, but your brand can if it’s clear enough to attract the right customer in the first place.
The customers who are your friends get the personal feeling of belonging to the crew from you, and the rest of the business is a bonus. However, the rest of the customers only get half the value. Arguably, the less valuable half.
Your team needs a clear system they can engage to ensure all customer interactions cultivate that same feeling. This is what people are actually buying—the product or service is just the vehicle. They come for the coffee; they stay for the experience of belonging.
But here’s the kicker…
You don’t want to treat everyone differently.
You don’t want to take the lead from the customer.
It’s safe to assume your friends are drawn to you because of you, not your ability to change who you are for each of them.
You have a type. And that’s precisely the point.
Trying to make everyone feel they belong dilutes the brand.
On the other hand, getting crystal clear on who you want to attract—and cultivating a space that makes that person feel part of the in-crowd—will repel mismatched customers and attract the right fits.
Let’s talk cost.
If you constantly try to “fix” customer issues, defend your pricing, or overdeliver to compensate for mismatched expectations, that’s not just frustrating. It’s expensive.
You’re spending time and emotional bandwidth on support and repair that could be going toward growth and refinement.
You’re losing word-of-mouth momentum because your best customers don’t have a clear enough story to tell about you.
You’re missing out on the kind of aligned customers who don’t just buy once—they belong.
Imagine this instead:
Your brand doesn’t just look good. It feels right to the people you most want to serve.
Your messaging, your experience, your follow-through—they all line up.
People know what to expect before they buy. And after they buy? They say, “Yes. This is exactly what I hoped it would be.”
Those customers spend more, stay longer, and bring others with them.
And your business becomes easier to run, because you’re finally building a customer base that doesn’t need convincing. They’re already aligned.
Why Us
At Humaniz, we help customer-obsessed B2C brands do more than merely look the part.
We help you define and externalize a brand identity that attracts the right people and sets expectations that your business is built to meet.
So your best customers don’t just find you. They stay.
Ready to raise your brand up right?
If this is the kind of brand you want to live inside of, here are some significant next steps:
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Who We Are
"We don’t create brands, because we truly believe that every business already has a brand. Rather, our role is to help founders and their teams embody the brand fully, express it with more clarity, and expand its influence and impact with more confidence."
~ Charlie Birch, Author of On Raising Brands + Founder and Creative Director @ Humaniz Collective
Bringing a brand to market is just the beginning of your brand’s development and life story.
And that’s where we come in!
We’re creative, marketing and operational experts working together to ensure brands come to life from the inside out.
We support brands throughout their lifecycle across three phases of service:
Brand Strategy
Brand Design
Brand Stewardship
If you’re looking for a brand partner to walk beside you, ensuring your brand grows up healthy and strong, makes good life choices, and attracts the right people into its orbit, Humaniz Collective is the obvious choice.
Engage with Brand IdQ - our complimentary brand strategy generator - and let us prove our worth.